Is "Safe Sex" Really Safe?
Empowering Relationships – or Invisible Timebombs
This article takes a revolutionary look at the nature of sexual interaction, "foreign energies" and the concept of empowering relationships. Stephen and Lynda Kane are established authorities on bio-energy with long experience in the field of relationships, human interaction and energy healing. Now, read on...
Sex is good for you – it's official – medical science
says so, everyone wants it and billions of dollars are made through talking
about it and selling it in one form or another. However, in the world of bioenergy – where we look at what's happening to your energy and how it affects your life – things aren't quite so simple.
According to science, sex stimulates your hormone production, relaxes you,
makes you happier and improves your health. However, the problem with biological or medical science is all the other things that are going on that it fails to notice because it isn't looking for them.
Take Alison for example. She came to see us, suffering from depression, skin problems
(dryness, rashes and itching) and fatigue, as well as work, relationship
and money problems. She'd tried the usual solutions for her health problems
but hadn't experienced any improvements.
One way of looking at any kind of human problem is in terms of the presence
of foreign energies
in the body. By foreign energies, we mean other people's energies in your body. When your energy is properly integrated, you
don't make decisions that generate problems in your life.
But when your energy is compromised by the presence of a harmful foreign
energy, you start creating future problems as a direct consequence
of its deleterious influence on your body, mind and feelings. Although
foreign energies are usually unfelt and unseen, they have an increasingly
damaging impact on almost everyone's life and awareness.
In Alison's case, she had a foreign energy in her 6th chakra, which is located
at the frontal lobes of the brain. This energy had a male polarity and had
been there for several years. It was affecting Alison's choices in areas
such as diet, relationships, work, home environment and so on.
Alison said she had had a brief affair, almost five years previously, with
a friend at work. Now that she thought about it, she'd first started getting
rashes a year or so after the start of her office fling.
Sex is the most invasive entry route for foreign energies into your
body. With one exception, all foreign energies inevitably cause future problems – and not just health problems.
Because of the time delay between first receiving a foreign energy
and the start of a future problem, it's impossible to perceive, with
normal awareness or scientific tests, the connections between new problems
and their original, energetic causes. Thus, foreign energies are not unlike invisible time bombs lurking
inside you – often for years – before making their presence felt.
Alison overcame her problems by changing her life in ways that eliminated
the foreign energy from her body. The changes she needed to make included
moving to a place that was resonant with her energy and developing one of
her innate but dormant abilities or "talents."
Of course, problems can often be overcome simply by, say, taking the correct
medication. But in fact, any fully effective treatment for any
problem eliminates a foreign energy - even if the practitioner is completely
unaware of it.
In Hidden Secrets of Real Health (page
198), we describe a simple test for determining if your current sexual relationship is causing your body to accumulate a harmful foreign energy or – the one exception – a foreign energy that is positively challenging.
A "positively challenging" energy is one that provides you with the resources
you need to develop your life and awareness in the ways that are,
currently, most essential for your personal development and future well-being.
In other words: it's the energy of an empowering relationship.
If you don't have an empowering relationship, you are better off without
an intimate relationship, thus avoiding an accumulation of life and awareness-damaging
foreign energies. And increasing the space in your life for an empowering
relationship to form part of your future.
If you are someone who is interested in developing your awareness to see
beneath the surface of your life – so it doesn't seem to just be "happening to you" much of the time – no form of sex is inherently "safe". Effective traditional spiritual disciplines don't advocate chastity because
they suffer from some quaint sexual hang-ups. But, rather, because people
who've developed a real awareness of human energy can clearly see how it
is usually effected by sex.
So, in reality, "safe sex" is a somewhat misleading term. It may save you
from some nasty physical bugs, but not from the energetic ones.
This will never be an appealing or popular message, but you will have a brighter
and better future, in many ways, if you hold out for an empowering intimate
relationship – and avoid the rest.